I think as with anything you have to make personal judgement and sort the wheat from the chaff and assess what is reasonable and logical and what is not.
I don't genuinely think the are any from MIA who are actively involved who are deliberately 'telling porkies' to get anyone to sign a petition. Obviously there is going to be a lot of rumour and speculation in something like this, but the argument about it being just that is also being used to dismiss people's thoughts and opinions out of hand.
All I know is that they have had extensive meetings with the college, the council, planning department, the loal area committe, highways, legal representatives... They have been looking at the deeds and covenants...
Yet you seem to believe that they act underhandedly, with an ulterior motive for not wanting the development on Hibbert Lane. Have you ever stopped to wonder why they would lie? I don't see any reason they would. It is clear that some is speculation, but much of it based strongly on what has happened in similar towns with similar developments elsewhere. Why dismiss this out of hand as scare mongering without considering the content? For example, I was there when Paul Lawrence from the council quoted the size of the plot and size of the building development potential as 9 acres / 5.5 acres. Yet I am still told to this day that the size is merely a scare tactic and the real development will be much smaller... Why dismiss this?
I just get the feeling that the No argument is the more measured of the two. It is against a large scale development for reasons of infrastructure, devaluation, and detriment to the town centre and community. Throughout this there genuinely seems to be an appreciation that competition is needed for the coop, just not on the scale suggested.
The Yes argument meanwhile seems to want a supermarket there at all costs, irrespective of the collateral damage. I know it will benefit individuals now, but when Marple turns into Bredbury (genuinely no offence intended) the place won't be the same for my kids. It's difficult, and the political correctness issue is clouding matters, and I do appreciate the financial issue to people. It's one of the situations where not everyone will be happy, and that is a hard pill to swallow on both sides and I'm sure we'd all agree that we want harmony and a happy neighbour.
People do need to stop being heated and stop taking offence to that when they do. I can see why you were unhappy Tina, but again, I feel it would help to differentiate between an individual and tarring the whole group with that opinion, and not allow interactions like that to prejudice your future analysis of all arguments presented to you.